As I say in my post “Dear Strangers who Just Want to Learn About Disability, I am Not an Infobooth“, a great way to learn about disability and engage with disabled people in a respectful way is to meet them on their own terms. The internet is great for this. If you are truly sincere about your desire to learn about disability, it is important to remember that one perspective is not representative of all perspectives so you should get more than one. As a way to start you off here are a few (but by no means exhaustive list) of disability blogs you might want to try. Please let me know if there are others that I should add to the list.
Words I Wheel By
Non-Speaking Autistic Speaking